An Opposite Type of Story - Reschooling

by Principal
(USA)

I have a sort of opposite type of story. I'm the principal of a rural elementary school in an area where homeschooling is very popular.

One day, a homeschooling mom with three students calls up. Basically, she has some issues and after years of happily homeschooling, she has to end it. With real terror, she is wondering is there any way that her kids can be protected from the "horrors of a government school." I'm a little amused, a little annoyed.

I invite her in, give her and her children a tour, and ask what she thinks. The kids all think that being in a "real school" (their language, not mine) looks great. She has to agree and says:

"You know, in my homeschool PSG, we hear all these terrible stories about government schools. I never expected to see such a pleasant place, with the children being treated so well, with so much stimulation, and such sophistication in education. In fact, we get in the habit of telling all these stories but most of us, are retelling stories about schools that we have NO first hand knowledge of. Our view of what happens in school is NOTHING like what I've seen here today"

Well, the kids have been in school now for several years and the mom and I are friends. She admits that her homeschooling friends feel betrayed by her decision and they absolutely refuse to listen to her feeling that the kids are getting a great education which, since she has volunteers and helps with homework, she feels very much part of.

My point is this. Your question reflects a mind already made up on the "best" way to educate a child. In short, a closed mind. I think the point is choice and flexibility and that, slander and propaganda from either side of the fence, is to be avoided.

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by: Jennifer

While it is my opinion that historical education (resembling homeschooling which had and continues to have better results) is what I call the "best" way to educate a child, I did not say that there is no such thing as a positive public school experience.

Please read my other articles including the main Homeschooling article.

As I have stated in that article, I want to make clear that my strong opinions stated here are not intended to condemn parents for sending their child to public school. But I do want to at least help everyone realize that our public school system (in general) has been failing in many ways and for many years and to give serious consideration to the type of environment they put their child in full-time...

My intention is to stand up for home education for being the gem that it is. It is a viable option and, if done lovingly, has numerous benefits for the child and family...

It is important to me that my child is in the best possible environment to learn, develop, and set personal standards. I see homeschooling as an avenue for this.


As to my posed question, it actually reflects the mind of people who have misconceptions or are unfamiliar with the rewards and positive results of homeschooling. It is simply a lead-in to give homeschoolers an opportunity to share their experience concerning an unnecessary objection with which homeschoolers are generally confronted; the misguided idea supposing that homeschooling is threatening your child?s chance for success. Some people actually believe this.

In reality, the results are the exact opposite. I agree with you that we should do our best to not spread misinformation or half-truths on either side. The evidence and facts make their own case. It is what it is. Honestly, the only real propaganda I've seen comes from people who are simply unfamiliar with homeschooling and make wide claims that they want to believe are true, but are neither supported by actual results or personal experience. But, that's just my experience.

By the way, I am happy for the mom and family you referred to in your comment.

All the best, Jenn :)

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